Dating Tips for Pick-Up Artist

A few weeks ago Mystery’s the Pick Up Artist was aired on VH1. I caught a recent episode and wanted to share with you guys my predictions.

What I liked:

- The Students. Generally I love pick up students, they’re always so eager to learn, share a common interest with me, and so grateful for the even the smallest amounts of improvement they make. Students are hands down the #1 reason why I do what I do.

- The Challenges. Creative, fun and entertaining. Winner of one contest gets to walk around with a cute puppy in the next. Hillarious.

- Ridiculous Outfits. No one can peacock like mystery, hands down. And the shows budget really allows for some fancy stuff. I dig it. Peacocking that hard is actually quite a challenge. Don’t believe me? Go to your local lair and look at all the guys who try it and get it wrong. It’s a  trainwreck.

What I didn’t like:

- J-Dog’s hair. I don’t think I need to go into this. Looks like the poor dude passed out on a park bench in the middle of a graffiti contest. While there were certainly things about this show that bug the working pick up artist in me, I have to hand it to Mystery and VH1 for presenting the community in a good light to a mainstream audience.

- Mystery not knowing why some of his students fail… He’s so attached to his structured method, he literally has blind spots as to why his students get blown out… “Yeah he should have used a false time constraint”. How about his lame body language, complete lack of masculine vibe and messed up compliance ratios?

- Using 4 year old, tired-out material, like “flossing before you brush etc..” Come on, we stopped using that stuff 3 years ago for GOOD reason! LAME, non-sensual conversation that goes NOWHERE! Sure you’ll get the girl to answer your question, but that’s not always what I call PROGRESS. If you’re going to have the guys memorizing routines, why not make them powerful, masculine and effective?

Now here’s some predictions out of the four guys left,:

Pradeep: Could become a master pua, but he’s gotta seriously increase his sensuality. He’s in the friend zone still. Doesn’t matter if he got that chick’s number on the show because that was FRIENDLY number close. He’s interesting but… too interesting. It’s giving the woman something to be attracted to, but those things are too exterior to get that deep physical attraction that a pua needs to do fast pulls, sensual selection switching, multiple relationship stuff, etc…

Joe: I think this guy has got serious potential on the show. He’s got the attitude down, but he’s the type that will get a certain level of success and become complacent. He’ll get a girlfriend and develop his social circle and work off that. Not TRUE master pua material. I just don’t see the kind of drive that would carry him to Master PUAdom. He may do well on the show, however, just due to the lack of competition.

Brady: Tall, good looking, fast learner. He’s chill, makes steady progress. His use of corny material, and constant second guessing of himself is what’s holding himself back. If he just chills out and acts NORMAL he’ll be on fire. Again though, like Joe, will probably become complacent at a certain level.

Alvaro: This guy COULD become a master pua, but not in a few weeks, and not under Mystery’s tuleage. He’s got that “inner flame” that drives him to excel at different things, but he’s going to need to really work to get consistent, and kill his approach anxiety and fear. He’s still got the brakes on. The minute he gets past that, his game will explode.

To sum up, it was a super entertaining show and I’ll definitely be trying to catch another episode of it.

There are men that will not be successful with women. Yes, it’s true. A lot of them just won’t get it.

It’s not about they’re not smart enough, appealing or somehow defective… It’s actually a subconscious choice, that they have made without knowing.

Are you one of that loser men? Or you want to make sure that you won’t belong to that group…

I’m here to tell you how.

What you will hear from me is a thing that probably would be heard in other gurus. Because it’s a very subtle but very powerful fix that most of them leave it out of their list.

First let me tell you about Matt. Well, he’s a good guy and likes to socialize. He has taken a bootcamp with another pickup company. But sad to say he still doesn’t get the success his looking for; in fact he’s not successful at all.

Wondering if I have given him a help?? No. I didn’t. An attempt maybe but nothing follows.

There are reasons why I didn’t help him. One being he’s too set in his ways and is stubborn.

BUT, that’s not the real reason. If he was only stubborn I’d have an easy time changing his mind about things. The real reason why I can’t help him is the same reason why he isn’t successful with women.

As I said Matt’s a good guy, but every time I talk with him he’s giving a vibe like he wants something from me. In fact a lot of our mutual friends have said the same thing to me about him.

He always give this vibe of having an ulterior motive. He talks to you like a friend, which is good, but obviously you will feel a vibe saying he’s trying to take knowledge, power and fun from me.

The same thing happens when he’s talking to women. He treats them well and nicely but he always gives off this vibe that on the corner of his mind he is up into an underlying intention.

That why we don’t like hanging out with him and neither do women.

We do all have intentions with and it isn’t a bad thing. If you express your sensual intentions openly they’ll accept it, especially if you have good game techniques. It may even turn them on. IN FACT it will skyrocket your conversion rate if you do it the right way.

But if you hide your intentions you come off as creepy and weird. Women won’t trust you or feel safe being alone with you. You could be the best actor in a pretending world but not in the real world… THEY WILL KNOW.

Being creepy is considered a “Death” card in the Tarot deck of your love life. It will destroy any chance of success you might have.

So now you know what might be going wrong. How do you fix it?

To start with, you need to be fun and unattached to the outcome whenever as you can. It could be telling a great story to a group or being a great host to a bunch of your friends. It could also be a compliment (in the right way of course) or a tease that will spike emotions in way that is fun to a woman.

Come out there and start talking to women not only for the the purpose of pickup and sleeping with them, but because women are interesting, wonderful and fun to be with.

The next thing you need is to start being clear about your intentions. This doesn’t mean that you tell the woman “The whole purpose of me talking to you is so that I can get into your undies.” That will instantly kill your pickup as fast as being creepy.

Just do a little changes in your behavior that will affect how your intentions be brought out and if you’re consistent with what you’re saying. You will see your GAME going well.

And there are so many small fixes that I could write a novel on them.

But I don’t think you would want to read a novel about fixing your creepy vibe and then taking the months to implement it that it will require… Right? Don’t worry I won’t. I wouldn’t want to spend the months writing that novel either.