The Fast Lay of the Pick-Up Artist
Let me share with you the topic about One Night Stand
It wasn’t until I had a couple solid pickups that I started to really understand how easy all this really could be.
Looking back, I realize now that those initial successes were the start of a major “bad belief overhaul.”
I began to believe that women wanted me and wants to get in bed.
I also started to think of myself as an attractive, desirable guy (even though I’m far from what’s typically considered good-looking).
Wanting to sleep with more women is the main goal of the 75% of my students.
While the others have the aim to find their someone special but I don’t think these aim are mutually exclusive.
Because if you are looking for a special girl, you have meet a lot of women so that you determine and pick the best choice.
And if you don’t know how to meet women, this can be a daunting task.
One of the common phase that every good pickup artist goes through when they gets started. Where he to learn to thinks of new ways and behavior and then start to meet and sleep with LOT OF WOMEN.
Just like a kid in a candy store, making a full advantage of his new powers!
This period of learning is necessary, or at least it was for me in order to snap out of my old way of thinking, and internalize my new reality - that I am attractive and woman want to sleep with me.
So it’s important that you have a few really fast, casual sensual encounters, in order to get the ball rolling on forming new beliefs.
I’m talking about one-night stands, same day lays, whatever you want to call it.
Now if you’ve never had a one night stand, or maybe got lucky a couple of times when you were drunk, having a one-night ’stands at-will’ can seem just as out-of-reach as having a great girlfriend.
Actually if you know what you are doing, it will be all easy.
The crappy thing is, a lot of guys make it WAY too hard on themselves, and never get those initial sexual experiences that help them to really feel like a “natural.”
If you’re going though with this newsletter, then you really want to MASTER THE GAME aside from getting BETTER with woman.
Mastery of the game comes from within and it start right through your mindset and leads to a visible results that form New Beliefs in your mind.
Your new beliefs will become the foundation in building and facing the new reality in your life, you will then naturally attract many women without even thinking and doing fancy lines and routines.
There’s one thing you need to know when going for a one-night stand - You cannot always bring home the hottest girl in the place.
You can get a solid number from her, but its not a guarantee that you can take her home because whether or not a woman is open to going home with a guy, it varies widely in particular night.
But there are lots of horny women that are open to get physically fast and wants to get laid that same day or night. All you have to do is know how to spot them in any situation whether it is a day or night or in the club, bar and park.
Some of the few things that you should look for are on the way how they dressed up and on the way how they put some make-up. Many women exerts a lot of hard work just to look beautiful. And you know there is a reason for it.
The reason is they want to be approached. Although it isn’t always true but is generally the case.
Another thing that you can spot that a woman is looking for attention is when she is being so loud and animated.
Lastly, another good prospect are woman that are looking around the room more than the other girls that she’s with. Also a group of two or three women all standing around with blank expressions, scoping the room are another prospect.
They are basically putting themselves out there, waiting for someone to approach them.
Now when you approach, take it easy - don’t go in full-steam running your clever routines and your cocky frame control stuff.
A simple “hey, you guys look great tonight. Special occasion?” is enough. It’s just have to be social, delicate and showing that you are interested in meeting them.
You should not openly discuss to the woman that you are looking to take her home and get her into bed. Because, if you talk about that, you’re putting a woman to a point where is to agree to implicitly bang with you.
Rather you want to build sensual tension, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.
The woman will force herself to keep distance from you because that is against her “rules”. And you need a logistic information in order to figure out how to bring her back to your place
The real key to all this is subtracting any overt sensual intention, and not trying to pick her up.
You have to be willing to let go of controlling the situation, and just enjoy yourself, while escalating appropriately.
Although it may seem as counter intuitive, but this is how it works.
You must trust that women wants to be in bed and there are a lot of women in the club, bar or in any venue that wants to get a same day lay.
Some won’t and some will, and that is why you need to know how to spot and get them.
You don’t want to invest a bunch of time with the wrong girl, or worse, to pick the RIGHT girl, and then mess it up after a lengthy interaction.
It’s not worth wasting your time for that.
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