Dating Tips for Pick-Up Artist

I am NOT a very fashionable type of guy.

Usually it is my girlfriend who pick the clothes for me -
not for my benefit…

… so that if we go out in public together she will not
feel embarrassed!

If it were me to pick the clothes, I’d wear a sweats and
T-shirt all day, together with an old worn sneakers. It
means that I think a fashion as silly.

I can absolutely appreciate the aspect of design and style
of fashion. When I looked at the able-bodied dressed woman,
her outfits is like of art, and I dig that.

I kinda lose respect when a guy is “too stylish.”

Don’t get it wrong, a guy should present himself like he
means to be taken seriously. A good quality, nice and
well-fitting clothes are a fundamental to masculine
expression.

But some guys take it too far.

Case in point, the obsession with “peacocking” in the
pickup Community for the past several years.

Hearing that words makes me cringe.

YOU ARE NOT A PEACOCK.

If you don’t know what “peacocking” is, let me explain it
to you.

A while ago, there was an emergence of routine-based
“game,” relying heavily on superficial techniques, status
games, and over-analysis of social interactions.

I didn’t see the value of any of this, and have always gone
in the opposite direction.

The main reason for this is that I saw how pretending to be
someone other than yourself, and saying jokes and routines
that other guys came up with JUST FELT WRONG.

The PRIMARY FOCUS of all these strategy and game-playing
was to visibly get approval from women, but making them feel
insecure and they’d think you were cooler than them.

Think of this bullshit layers in the approach to dating.
Not only are you faking your personality because you

a) seek approval (as if women were an authority on what
makes a man a man)

b) hide the truth that you’re looking for approval

c) play games that will make women feel insecure so that
they will try to seek your approval

YUCK

One of the main techniques of this approach was to
“peacock,” to dress up in a really loud, ostentatious way so
that women would “notice” you and want to talk to you.

Now there’s nothing wrong with wearing a nice watch, or a
necklace that has some personal meaning.

I don’t want women to like me because of that.

I’m sure many guys have seen the advocates of this approach
on TV shows,straining to make sense out of this hare-brained
“technique.”

I’ve personally encountered students of other pickup
schools, and felt sad because these poor guys were not only
nervous, clumsy, misdirected…they looked RETARDED.

So I’d like to set a record when it comes to fashion and
meeting girls.

There are only a handful of things you need to pay
attention to when it comes to your appearance.

After knowing this stuff, you should put it out of your
mind and TAKE ACTION before women can notice you.

Before we move on, I have a secret that has to reveal.

(To be Continued in Part 2)