What The Pickup Artist on VH1 Wont Tell You About Fashion 2
(continued from part 1)
There was about a couple of times that I did the
peacocking. I did that to see if it worked because I heard
that other guys were doing it.
When I went out I felt ridiculous and was totally
incongruent with my personality.
As we all know women love’s fashion and they like a
well-dressed man.
I noticed that it was in my workout clothes or something
really basic – like jeans and a tanktop that some of my best
pickups occurred.
I’d see muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or
super-tight shirts at the club, and women definitely did not
respond well to this.
It got me thinking… that maybe it’s not how flashy or
costly are the cloths should be.
Maybe there’s something else going on.
There are two things going on. This two things must be
manage or balance.
First and foremost, never seek approval from women. If a
woman can tell that you are trying to impress her or make
her like you, you are toast.
So if you look like you got dressed with the intention of
getting women’s attention, they’ll see you coming a mile a
way and put up their defenses.
You shouldn’t have to look like a pick up artist.
It’s better to dress reasonably, and not put too much
thought into it.
However, you don’t want to look sloppy. You want to present
yourself in the best way you can.
This comes back to self-expression.
You now have sense what kind of guy you are, what your
“scene” is, what you think is cool.
Don’t change that.
Instead, develop it, with these simple tweaks.
This isn’t a rocket science. Wear colors that appeal to
your skin tone and hair color. Go to an upscale men’s
clothing store, and ask someone about this. Or look online.
Next is to make sure that your clothes are clean, wrinkle
free and reasonably updated. A woman will not worry about
bringing you around her friends.
Most of all, be sure that your clothes fits well, they
BRING OUT YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your
shoulders.
Put on a pants that make your legs look long and thin.
Wear shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.
Groom yourself – nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a decent
haircut. Shave, or don’t, but figure out what looks best and
take it all the way.
Another thing…
Accessories should adhere off you loosely, and have a look
of a small decoration that says, “yeah, I can fuck.”
Make out for your intuition with this one. I don’t want to
say too much because that’s a whole other topic.
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